Thursday, May 24, 2012

30 by 30


Pretty self explanatory.  Need to cross everything off by my birthday next year.  Wish me luck.

Here is the final list.  Half way through the year I changed my view on what was important and as such didn't make it through my list.  On the other hand I did a few things not on the list that I think are more important.  Also, I originally dismissed how difficult the transition to making a home in a new country is (versus visiting/travelling).
  1. Get an engineering job in NZ Okay it's not technically engineering but in a related field
  2. Take a dance class - Update: Took a Ceroc course, need to do another
  3. Run at least 5 km at one time
  4. Enter a duathlon or long distance event Totally cheated here...entered the event but didn't go
  5. Go to a rugby game Completed 19/5
  6. Have a century day (100 mile bike ride)
  7. Learn to drive a manual car ( I drove Darryl's type 3 VW car 10 km...calling that a win)
  8. Write down one thing I'm grateful for a day
  9. Floss weekly - was really good for 4 months then not so good
  10. Make a home brew
  11. Learn how to make a good latte Still working on this, but it's drinkable
  12. Learn basics in spanish -nope try again later
  13. Make a dress - Update: 2013 finished one dress and 90% down with two additional ones
  14. Complete a knitting project other than a scarf (or other rectangle or square) - made some mustache things
  15. Build a bike up from a frame - mabel is at the painters...this will happen shortly
  16. Try sailing - not gonna make it....will keep it on to do list
  17. Try rock climbing outside - (Update:  I did do this in 2013!!)
  18. Make 3 different types of cheese - (Update: 2013 Made mozzarella, ricotta, and creme fraiche)
  19. Start pilates - (Update: 2013 completed. Need to sign up for more!)
  20. Write a short story
  21. Volunteer at least 12 hr for a good cause
  22. Learn to cook one new thing a month
  23. Collect some sort of shellfish direct from the ocean
  24. Write and SEND one card/letter a month
  25. Read 12 nonfiction book including recipe, crafting, design, architecture, selfhelp, biographies
  26. Walk/run the Tongario crossing (giving myself a by as part of the crossing is closed due to volcanic eruption, yes an excuse but valid I think)
  27. Attend a art/music class - calling sewing art UPDATE: took a singing course
  28. Milk a cow
  29. Abstain from alcohol for 30 days - My alcohol intake is about 2 drinks a week which I figured was close enough that I didn't bother
  30. Learn to surf -This one is the only one I'm quite annoyed at myself for not completing

    Other random goals/accomplishments I didn't have on my list but completed:

    1a) Left a horrible job before it left me jaded
    2a) Did 800 km detour on a roadtrip that resulted in an unforgettable weekend
    3a) Set up a home in a new country
    4a) Acknowledge I have feelings and trying to use them productively
    5a) Received residency in a new country
    6a) started playing bike polo
    7a) Walked through a stream that was also a cave
    8a) cycled the otago rail trail
    9a) survived a second broken arm

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Chiang Mai

After breakfast and a couple of coffees I conceded I needed to leave Barrie and Sunnie's and than I continued on my way.  Though I was told about a route following the river by the Canadian couple I wasn't in the mood to meander and enjoy.  Was ready to get to the city and get me a massage.  Part of this had to do with the fact that Barrie and I had stayed up late drinking beer and my head was a little fuzzy this morning.

So I followed the busy highway into town.  As I was going I thought it might have been a good idea to take the other route but too late now.

Got into town and was wandering around for a decent guesthouse when I ran into the women's only one I had heard about.  It had a gated courtyard perfect for Mabel and little extras that only ladies care about so I decided to stay.  Like free cookies and fruit!

Didn't do too much that day as I was tired from the ride and lack of sleep.

22 February 2012 - Chiang Mai

Today I ran a bunch of errands that needed to get done.  I went out to the train station and got my ticket to Bangkok, had pictures printed so I can send them to Chang, got a haircut (hell yeah no more mullet), and went through my bags to get rid of stuff.  Since I was so productive I thought I earned a massage!

Was going to go back out but ended up chatting with my dorm mate for the rest of the evening.

23 February 2012 - Chiang Mai

My dorm mate (Oksana) had done a cooking class that she really enjoyed so I signed up for the same on.  It was really good as the instructor was funny and lively.  Plus there were only 7 of us so we all started chatting.

After spending all day slaving over the kitchen I decided to get a 2 hour massage.  I've decided to take full advantage of my last days in Thailand and inexpensive massages.  After I was all relaxed I went to the little street market and ate prior to coming back to chat with Oksana again.

24 February 2012 - Chiang Mai

Today was shopping day.  After six months of wearing the same thing I was ready for a new outfit and needed a swimsuit for Australia.  There are so many cute dresses everywhere and most are under $10.  So I bought three dresses and a swimsuit for under $40.  Prior to this I only had 2 off bike shirts and 1 pair of shorts which would not be enough for Australia where most of the time will not be cycling days. (Not that I need justification).

Of course had another massage.  Then I hit a little sad spot as happens sometimes so I went to grab a beer prior to dinner and was going to come back to the guesthouse.

As it happened I couldn't resist the sign at the Irish pub for Guinness.  I guess I want to get used to paying Australian prices.  So I get my most delicious stout...nothing better then a smooth cold beer in hot weather and see that Rugby is on and better yet in about an hour ice hockey will be playing.  And there I sat no longer the least bit sad as I got to watch two of my favorite sports in a cute dress, with a new haircut being left totally to myself.  Yes, this was good.

The funny thing was that Vancouver was playing.  The last time I watched hockey was the Stanley cup last year where Vancouver played horribly.

Luckily the game was a good one and I enjoyed it until the third period when a Canadian sat down next to me.  We started chatting and I ended up not seeing the rest of the game but he was quite interesting and had just gotten into Thailand a couple of weeks before.  Had one of those great life discussions and overall good time.  You guessed it another retired man.  The longer I travel the more excited I get to grow old.  Not only will I have the adventurous spirit but the wisdom to go along with it.

A really perfect end to an overall great day.  Also, helped me remember not to sweat the small stuff as life is pretty grand.

As a cycle tourist there isn't much to do in Chiang Mai as it turns out most people come to the city to head to the remote areas I was just in.  So I do wish I would have stayed another day or two out in the country but I met some great people.

Fremantle


7 March 2012 – Rottnest

Took the ferry from Hillary's to Rottnest with Dane. When had to share the ferry with a full boat of school children. What a noisy boat. Expecially because we were in the front and the trip was a bumpy one.

Dane wasn't feeling the best so it was funny to hear his little statements at particularly annoy kids.

When we got to the island Dane got us a campsite as I became a sherpa. I had strapped Dane's bag with the tent and his stuff on top of my rack and had my backpack on along with my purse. While Dane was riding unencumbered. He soon found how nice bike racks were...especially if they aren't on your bike.

We quickly set up the tent as we only had a few hours of sunlight left. The wind was really blowing so we left hoping our tent would be there when we returned.

As Dane wasn't feeling the best we went a short way around the coast and found a beach to swim in prior to heading back and picking up food. We picked up a great selection of picnic food to have on the beach.

We stopped by the campsite on the way to discover that the tent was still there though was looking quite sickly. We tried to make a couple of adjustments only to discover that one of the poles had snapped. As it was there was still room for our heads without risk of suffocation so we left it to go to the beach and see the sunset.

This was one of the best dinners/nights I've had in a long time as we sat on the steps to the lighthouse watching the sunset, eating good food, in great company, and drinking almost tequila sunrises. As the night progressed the near full moon lit up the beach and we had a great view of the planets and then stars coming out.

Dane had just bought a SLR camera and we sat playing around with it. Making both of us appear as ghosts without bodies.

After going back to the campsite to reveal that our tent had not become worse and fighting off the kangaroo rats that persisted on trying to attack me (or not). We settled into our rundown accommodations for a lovely nights sleep.

8 March 2012 – Rottnest to Fremantle

Went with Dane to his ferry as he had to get back for work and then headed out around the island. It was another lovely day and I had until 4:00 to explore. I would cycle a bit and then stop off for a swim in one of the bays.

I made it all the way to the west end of the island and headed back towards town. Unfortunatly I forgot to hire a snorkel set so I did get any snorkeling in. As I neared the area that we had cycled the day before I headed inland to the beautiful but slightly aromatic Pink Lake.

Then made my way back to town for a late lunch

The Sail and Anchor had choices upon choices of delicious beer. Though they didn't have a sour on tap so ya know. I did however get a chili dry dock (chili dry hopped) and an American IPA. I love AIPA's when I'm not in the country because they rarely use cascade hops which I'm still on the fence about.

After sitting reading my book I looked around at the posters decorating the walls and recognized a fair amount but had a couple surprised. Such as Rainer Brewery....the only beers I've had of theirs are similar to PBR the midwestern classic but actually in Seattle they will have PBR on tap prior to Rainer. Crazy town. After having a laugh on that note I decided to grab some beers and head back to the hostel. Luckily for me (sarcasm) there are quite a few longtermers so I don't want to deal with breaking into the realm at this moment in time. Really should've stayed around instead of going out for drinks by myself but I had fun that I can't really translate to other people. Not too many people are satisfied by looking out a window at the bikes that go by, reading a book and drinking good beer.

So in the last week I've noticed that I have a couple of serious problems. One is my bike obsession (really I wouldn't call it obsessive) and my beer obsession (same statement as before).

Perth

1 March 2012 


Heading from my guesthouse in Bangkok to the Airport Rail link I missed my turn and ended up on a interstate for a short section before I could exit and try for the correct street.

Arriving at the station I was told that my bike could not be taken on the train.  LAME.  So I dumped out my backpack and started disassembling my bicycle.  This is always the part that makes me want to punch Asians.  Now that I am irritated and busy working they sit there and just watch me for 15 minutes.  This seems to always occur I know it's just that they are curious but at the time I just want to be left alone.  Nothing to see here...keep going.  Needless to say I was done with Asia and wanted to get back to the western world.

I had a great time in the parts of Asia I saw but unlike most places I've been I don't have the overwhelming urge to return to them.  I want to make it to all the countries I missed but don't feel the need to revisit the ones I explored unless I'm meeting friends there (hint hint people).

Once Mabel was shoved into her bag I took the lift to the train and made my way to the airport. The plane rides went smoothly and before I knew it I was being greeted in Perth by a sleepy Dane and his father.

Off we headed to the suburbs of Perth where I would have the great pleasure of staying for the next few days.

2 March 2012 - Perth

Today I got up and enjoyed a nice cup of tea with milk.  Then I sat outside and went online where the near silence was a surprise!  Didn't realize how much I missed silence until then.

But the thing I was excited for in getting to Australia did not let me down!  For the first time in almost 4 months I was CLEAN!!  No layer of grime even though I just got out of the shower. No nasty black boogers. No breathing in thick smog.  It was lovely.

I put together Mabel with only a small issue of needing to place the rear derailleur cable into it's stay.  After some manipulating and a little elbow grease she came right and it was smooth sailing from there.

Then met the rest of the family and had a nice friday night of watching a movie prior to heading to bed.

3 March 2012 - Perth

Got up and went into work with Dane as he had a short shift at the aquarium.  It was fun to wander around and of course touch the animals in the touch pool.  I touched a shark!  Sometimes I wonder if I get more excited then the kids.

After Dane was done with work we went for a swim and jumped off the jetty.  It seems that this is the base of our friendship since we did the same in Croatia.

Dane's cousin had her engagement party that night so I got to go to his family gathering.  It was fun to go to someone's family outing where I had no invested interest.  Good times were had.

4 March 2012 - Perth

Today I finally made it into the city.  I found out that the Perth bike polo practiced on Sunday's so I went in to meet up with some (hopefully) like minded people.  Of course I was not disappointed and the group was great.

The funny thing was there was a girl in a dress there and they said "She's great, can't you tell".  I believed them but soon realized that because she was wearing a dress I was to assume she didn't ride bikes....hmm...haven't met my friends...and kinda wish I would've work the dress I was going to.

Anyway, the guys were great and let me play a few games while giving me tips.  I'm quite timid and need to use my brake A LOT more but I can see why so many people love the game.  Plus I really need to improve my bike skills so when I find a home I will for sure be building up a polo bike.

Talking about building up a polo bike, one of the guys just put a White Industry chrome crankset on his. WHAT?!? Why put something so nice on?  Still don't get that...or the Ti brakes that were on the bike I was using but each to their own on bike builds.

And this last paragraph was when I realized I truly truly have a bike problem!

5 March 2012 - Woodvale (Perth)

Today Dane was at Uni and it happened to be horribly hot so I changed my plans from biking the 20 km into town to heading to the local beach.  It was a nice leisurely bike ride and I soon found the bike path that joined multiple beaches together.  I went and spent a bit of time in the water and reading prior to being frightened of burning and riding back home.

6 March 2012 - Perth

Today I went into Perth in the morning with Dane where we had a coffee prior to him heading to class.  I then spent the day exploring the city (as polo day was mostly just polo).  Needless to say I spent most of the day in Kings Park overlooking the city and enjoying multiple different locations.

Once I got hungry I headed around town to find a cute little place and explore.  After food I headed along the river until I happened across another park like area and sat in the shade next to the river.  Soon a dolphin was seen and I pretty much thought it was an awesome day.

But we weren't finished yet Dane and I met up for a Kangaroo burger (yep you can eat the national symbol).  Then headed out to Fremantle to see the city and stop at the raved about Little Creatures.  Had a good hoppy beer but don't know what it was called as I first tried the "Bright Ale" (golden ale) and didn't like it so the bartender gave me this one.

We then headed to a different bar where one of Dane's best friends was working and I had an IPA and and Imperial Stout by Moo Brewery.  Both were very good.


addiction


Sometimes there is a slow realization of things down in my gut. They seem to boil up, bursting as they reach air with whispers of these feelings. POP..”B”....POP...”soaring”...POP...”happy”. As the realization of what this actually means starts to come into focus that sinking feeling washes over me again.

I am addicted. Totally unable to control myself, need to calm the nerves....just a little won't hurt, will it?Yes, with this broken arm I finally have to admit my debilitating addiction to cycling. I always thought I could stop if I wanted to but I now know that it is just not the case. I am getting irritable as none other and am really at the point where I don't want to look at pretty bikes as it makes me angry (stupid chrome bike with full campy groupset..NO you are NOT pretty...argh no good bike).

To put a rainbow over this situation I get to talk to the specialist this week about the chances of surgery...which since I'm now talking with him instead of the normal doctor and had a second catscan I'm thinking the news does not involve bunnies hopping in circles singing to me joyously.

But back to the trouble at hand. After the multiple accidents you would of thought I would have fessed up to this addiction by now. Or maybe when I started collecting a herd of bicycles? Luckily I was always surrounded by someone more thoroughly engulfed in this devil called cycling (“well So and So has fifteen bikes so I must not have a problem!”). Yes it is a slippery slope that I slid down and now that I am banned for an unallotted amount of time I'm understanding how much my life has become about bikes. Now, just maybe part of this epiphany is also because I've spent 16 of the last 22 months cycle touring (okay really 14 months cause of the other broken arm).

HOLY CRAP until I typed that I really I forgot it was so much time.

Anyway, the thing with cycle touring is that it gets under your skin in so many ways. I think that it will be a long time until I understand all the ways it's helped me grow as a person. The places I've been, the emotions I dealt with, the challenges I conquered, all of it is so amazing. It's also why even though some days I go to bed early and put on an awesome impression of a recluse the next day I force myself to get out of bed and continue on. It's just one more pedal stroke up the long gradual climb. I know that a broken arm is nothing compared to what a lot of people I know are dealing with and once again I have to think about how lucky I am. How much worse all of my falls could've been and coming out with a couple of broken arms is by no means fun (sometimes funny) I still know it's a small price to pay for all the experiences I've gained.

So I suppose there are a lot worse addictions to have.

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

The Aussie, the American, the bike formally known as (BFKA) Neutrino, the bike known as Mabel Syrup, and the Skyline


March 10 - 25th 2012

Canberra

So I highjacked my friend Mick's roadtrip/biking adventure. Okay maybe he invited me but it's more fun for me to imagine holding him (or more liking BFKA Neutrino) hostage until he caved. That's much more exciting than the true events so I'll stick with the hostage situation.

Anyway I said goodbye to Perth and flew over to Canberra. The little visited capital city. Mick's cousin is going to Uni there and as such had a Uni open house policy. The ladies were really friendly though they weren't around too much with school and all.

Mick was able to borrow a bike for me to use so the next day we went out to do some mountain biking. He was quite a trooper as I am beyond sucky and he would patiently wait for me to get through a run. It always amazes me how quickly I get tired while MTBing but I think part of it is that I tense every muscle in my body the whole time which causes early fatigue.

Mick sniper attacked me at the end of a run

After the morning outing we made the fatal mistake of eating lunch and getting comfortable so we didn't end up going and seeing the city (or the symphony playing Hollywood Hits) that night and instead went to bed early as we had an 8:00 am MTB date. The friend who lent the bike was keen to come out with us and wanted to head out early. I did however get Mabel back together so the afternoon wasn't competely unproductive.

Dave met us at the house and we headed on the short ride to the park. All other MTB areas around the City were closed due to the crazy amount of rain that had fallen. Both the guys were again really great to ride with and Dave made sure to wait at all the junctions so I didn't get lost. I know the guys probably would've gone out for longer and been faster had I not been trailing along so I really appreciated them taking it  down to my level.

After the MTBing we made a temporary bike shop in the driveway and changed out the seals of Dave's front shock. We said bye to Dave and had a quick lunch prior to heading out to explore the city. We went around the west side of the lake and then stopped for a half dinner prior to heading back home for some more food and beers. After a refuel and remembering to grab a couple of beers we went to explore the east side of the lake. Turns out the reason there wasn't much bike/ped traffic on that side was cause a section of the track was washed out. So we headed back and just sat down to drink our beer when a fireworks show started on the other side of the lake. Pretty awesome timing on our part!

With most of the MTBing tracks closed we decided to head out the following day.

To Sydney and Sydney -

We headed towards Sydney and this was officially my first view of the Australian countryside. It was pretty, starting with rolling hills and then coming into eucalyptus forests.

Soon we were back at the coast. Camp tonight was suppose to be in a State Forest that ended up being a National Park. After a very minor getting stuck episode we headed back to the first campsite we found and put up camp. The night was great as we had a great view of the stars and mostly no wind.

The next day we made it to Sydney and Mick's grandmothers house. She is 95 and quite spry! Mick's uncle was also there so we all chatted.

The next day Mick went MTBing. Finally able to quench his MTB itch without having to be patient with me tagging along. I headed out on Mabel to explore the city. As I inefficiently found my way across the Harbour bridge I ran into a bike shop which gave me a map of the city and some suggestions of must sees.

I spent all day wandering through the city at a very leisurely pace. It was so much fun to be riding in a city again...playing with traffic! I love how fun it is to be moving with city traffic and watching out for all the obstacles...people, doors, cars, debris. So fun!

Some building in Sydney

because Mabel wants memories of the trip too!

As the afternoon was coming I decided to meander back to Mosman so I didn't have to find my way in the dark.

The following day was rainy and gloomy so a perfect day to catch up online and give the parents a ring. Rainy days can be fun when you aren't camping.

On the Road – Sydney to the Gold Coast

The weather improved the next day so we decided to continue on our way. Mick chose an amazing place to camp! But prior to that we went on a koala hunt at the nearby koala reserve...needless to say we did not spot a koala. Though we did see a kookaburra and a pelican hanging out on a street lamp.

closest koala I saw

Mick taking a break from the koala hunt

Pelican just hanging

Mick drinking a beer enjoying the view

The view

Just because your camping doesn't mean you can't be gourmet

After we finished our little jaunt through the woods we drove to Myall Lakes National Park. The camping location was great as it was right next a lake and we could hear the ocean on the otherside. The best of both worlds. After setting up camp we went to sit on a log and enjoy the sunset. Another clear night allowed for great stargazing and a few shooting stars were spotted.

The next day we stopped by Dark Point to go for a swim at the beach prior to heading on for the day. While no swimming was possible due to the roughwaters it was great to climb up what seemed to be a small sand dune to find ourselves with a stretch of 300 or more meters of dunes prior to the beach. It was awesome. As I was behind Mick as I came over the dune he looked back with what I can only imagine was the same eye to eye grin that I had on my face. Such an unexpected brilliant start to the day.



As we left the dunes it started to sprinkle which would happen off and on all day. As we headed inland to our next destination it became more consistent. We kept up hope that the rain would not hold has we headed onto the gravel road in Barrington Tops National Park. Needless to say we didn't see much as we climbed. What little we could see seemed to be quite impressive. After discussion we still believed that the rain would not get worse and as such we should camp. Since the fly wasn't waterproofed we first set up a tarp in the windy drizzle. Then we proceeded to put up the tent. Of course it was nice and rocky requiring all stakes to be pounded into the ground.

After camp was nicely set up we retreated to the car to play games on Mick's iphone. Then we made dinner...luckily we did not have to cook it on the campstove. By the time dinner was finished water was creeping dangerously close to the tent...or should I say castle surrounded by a moat?! Another discussion, and it was determined to sleep in the car. We set up a nice entertainment system and watched a few MTB videos prior to heading to a dry sleep.

Unfortunately the rain hadn't cleared by the morning and we took down the unused tent in it. Heading through another day of off and on rain left both Mick and I cranky. Each time it appeared that the rain was finally gone it would come back stronger just to completely squash all hope of a dry day. We took the coast road which did give a few great dry views of the coast. We begrudgingly headed toward our final destination and the inevitable wet tent and wet set up. We were so sure of this that neither one of us mentioned picking up beers.

As we turned onto the minor road to the campsite the sun started peeking out of the clouds and even gave the forest an amazing golden appearance. We set the tent up to dry and headed to the beach. It was completely abandoned accept for us. Plus the waves were just rough enough to be lots of fun without pounding us. We dried off and were both in a better mood. Actually in complete shock of how nice it was! We then headed for a short ride to see if we could get good photos of the trees but it appeared we missed our moment. Still got a couple but missed the really good light.

The rig

my beach

trees

The next day the sky looked menacing and we were doubtful that it would be a good day. After heading along the coast we started to head inland to the next Park and the sky slowly started to clear. We got into camp and could actually sit around outside for awhile. We made our dinner and were soon visited by possums who were quite cheeky and one even touched Mick before it burned itself on the mosquito coil we had going.

This was viewable for exactly 5 minutes...perfect timing yet again

Cheeky guy just burnt himself


Of course all thing have to come to an end and it started to sprinkle just as we were going to go for a night walk to see night creatures.

The next day we headed for the hike that Mick had planned to do.  Since the last bit to the peak was a granite face which was slippery due to the rain I turned back prior to the summit.  No point in tempting fate.

As I went on the easy flat hike I saw the worlds slowest race when two slugs were following each other.  Then got to see a bearded dragon and these other lizards that scooted across water.  The granite landscape was amazing and reminded me of the stone giants from "The Never Ending story"

slug race!

giant's doorway

Once we were both back from our hikes we decided to go for a little bike ride.  We ran into a couple who told us we wouldn't be able to cycle up the hill to the hike...we were optimistic that we could do it.  To the couples credit it would've been a hard climb for someone not use to hills especially as it got quite steep in the middle.  I got a little out of breath but slowly and steadily made my way up.  Mick of course didn't even seem to realize there was an incline as he is one of those people that LOVES hills (weirdo).

We then had to come up with a story to tell the couple to not feel bad about themselves.  As it turns out the wife had just learned to ride a bike for the first time in her life 3 months before and I would have been amazed had she been able to conquer that hill.  I did mention to them that both of us also cycle across countries to hopefully not discourage them...plus I'm not too proud that I push my bike up hills sometimes still.

The next day we headed out to camp near a new mtb park that came about due to a new dam being built.  As we started setting up camp we soon made a friend...a long slithery poisonous (but not too poisonous) friend. Let's just say I'm not thrilled about poisonous snakes..or anything poisonous other than a platypus really.


And it was having a grand old time climbing up and down the tent.  Now this was annoying but what was really bugging me was how we were going to know if we had a snake surprise when we tried to get into the tent later.  Mick on the other hand was enjoying this immensely...partially I'm sure because I would scurry the other way to keep a maximum distance between me and the snake (could this one strike only a third of it's body length or the full length?).  Of course as I left the excitement to use the bathroom it started heading towards the toilet block and to my great horror there was a perfect snake sized gap at the bottom to ensure air circulation!

Anyway after awhile the snake got bored of tormenting me and headed towards supper.  Mick needed to do some bike maintenance and I figured I should do some myself.  We got done and went for a short ride mostly to check out which runs were closed due to rain and if Mabel could pretend she was a mtb.


making friends my mom warned me about

Mick doing maintenance 

purdy 

hanging out in a tree

The next day Mick went off on the real runs as I meandered through the easy tracks with Mabel.  She actually did a lot better than I thought She was going to.

Once we had lunch we packed up the tent and headed to the Gold Coast where I would be staying with Verin.  Mick and I said our goodbyes outside Verin's apt and then Verin and I went to catch up.  It was quite funny to realize how much I had missed female friends!  I had been surrounded almost entirely by men for the last six months and it was so nice to talk with a lady!!

I really only had three times in my travels where I had female travel companions and that was with my Aunt in Bangkok, Laos, and then Chiang Mai.  I always have more male friends partly due to my profession, growing up with brothers, and being into bikes but this trip made me cherish the lady friends that I have and that I made!  It was so nice when I was talking about something that upset me and Verin just got up and said "This is a chocolate conversation" and came back with Tim Tams.  Those are the small things that men wouldn't understand.

It was really great to catch up with her and a slight shock that she had cut off her dreads but she looked cute as ever in her rotating hat collection.


Monday, May 7, 2012

Truthfully I'm tired the cycle tour of Asia made me emotionally exhausted in a way I didn't expect and the thought of being in one spot for awhile was causing me overwhelming happiness.  When I got to New Zealand I had an amazing wave on satisfaction sweep over me. Of course the path I was meant to go down was not the smooth highway but a minimum maintenance road.

So here I am in my flat wanting a job to fall in my lap. A portion of me would love to whine to someone about how I haven't found a job but my heart won't allow that.  I have not put in the effort necessary to find a job and as such I have not found one.  There are a myriad of reasons and excuses why this is so but the biggest one is that I don't feel like it.  I'm not in the mood to put on my smile and fake it yet...I'm still in the mode to sit in my living room and read books and research jobs.  Of course a part of me also is scared.  Once I start actually trying to find a job the rejection notices will have a sting I'm not sure my wounded pride can recover from...see I told you I had excuses.

Partly I feel like I broke this arm because I missed learning something vitally important last time.  I learned a lot so I will say I don't think it was REALLY necessary to have me break the other one, universe....couldn't I have just sprained some muscles?  No, no, that would mean I would lead a boring, pain free (or little) existence which is not my style.

Anyway I have decided that I will allow myself this week to make a plan to move forward and will start implementing it next week.  This is not only for the job hunt but also to make more friends.

NZ round 2 - I'm beginning to sense it hates me

Getting into the country I felt like I was home.  The weather was nice with that crispness in the air that signals autumn.  I flew down to Christchurch the next day where I met up with some friends.  Then headed over to the west coast the following day to pick up my stuff from Adam and enjoy a couple days in one of my  favorite place in NZ.

The weather was absolutely stunning...as if I was being welcomed back.  After a couple of days on my own I realized that I had enough of alone time and headed back towards Christchurch prior to going to the Banks Peninsula for a daytrip.

On the way to Akaroa I was surprised to find the hills so big and steep.  This was the first time I was impressed by something I had cycled.

I mentioned to Geoff that I wanted to go to Queenstown for some mountain biking and he was keen so we planned to go the next weekend.

I started doing errands and re-familiarizing myself with the layout of the city since the city central was still cordoned off..

The weekend came quick and the weather was absolutely beautiful.

Got up had some breakfast and then got kitted out prior to heading up the gondola. Started to go down and was following Geoff went on a line I normally wouldn't have but it went good.  The bike was feeling like a pogo stick (finally understood that phrase) and I was going to exchange bikes when I got to the bottom of the run.  Of course as luck would have it that didn't occur as I fell off andas I tried to toss the bike landed on my arm with a familar sensation.  Geoff was way in front of me and an Aussie couple stopped to help.

The best part of this came after the hospital trip when Geoff said he really wished he would of got a picture of me and Fiona spooning on the side of the trail!  Once he said it I could only imagine how it looked to everyone going by as she tried to keep me warm....priceless really.

cast number 1 with not the bike i was on

cast number two and my green jacket

Anyway this is how my world works 10 days into the country I broke my other arm....well at least I broke my record of 21 days!